My buddy of mine went through a divorce, and decided to move there because of the cost, outdoor opportunities, etc. So on his first day on his new job, the director pulled everyone together to welcome him. At the end of the speech the guy told a really racist joke (n word and all) of what was an otherwise normal and very nice reception. My friend said “he told the joke and then stared at me for like 5 seconds while others laughed like it was normal.” Then, not another incident like that one in the 8 years he’s worked there, and even the director seems otherwise normal. My friend is not black btw, and still wonders why he did this?? So odd??